This is a tad out of point but as a male developer in Singapore, I face the exact opposite situation. I have a hard time finding similar minded developers who l

This is a tad out of point but as a male developer in Singapore, I face the exact opposite situation. I have a hard time finding similar minded developers who love the bleeding edge, tech startups, *nix vs Apple debates, etc. I'd love to go to a conference, and just immerse myself in tech talks that go DEEP into detail, and then have drinks, and thrash talk about Ubuntu, and still end up using it. Consider yourself lucky, ms dev.