> how do these people who "get it" find each other? Jokes. Assholes tend to make jokes at other peoples' expense. If someone else joins in on the off-color

> how do these people who "get it" find each other? Jokes. Assholes tend to make jokes at other peoples' expense. If someone else joins in on the off-color jokes, then you know they are the same kind of asshole you are.