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So this is how I live my life - knowing that your good health and ability can always just end at no fault of your own. It still haunts me that my father had pla
by gambiting 3y ago
So this is how I live my life - knowing that your good health and ability can always just end at no fault of your own. It still haunts me that my father had plans we always talked about, he was very active and loved going outdoors and travelling, mountain biking, hiking etc, he spent a crazy amount of time getting a Land Rover done up as a Camel Trophy replica for a big adventure we were meant to go on, and then basically got cancer and died couple months after his 50th birthday.
That's not to be gloomy and depressing - just that if you:
1) want to do something
2) have the physical health to do it
3) doing so won't put your family in a difficult situation financially or otherwise
Just do it. When my friends say "oh I'll do that when I'm retired" or even just "oh I'll start activity X maybe in a couple of years" I'm like.........why. You don't even know if you'll be fit and healthy next year, making plans for your retirement in 20 years or even postponing simple outdoor activities like mountain biking or camping for a couple years "when the time is better" is.....unreasonable to me.
Like the article says - we're all just temporarily abled. Maybe some of us if very lucky will remain abled for a long time. A lot of people will not. If you have the good fortune of being abled now, use it now.
- joquarky 3y agoThis is good advice, as I assume most here are fairly young. Be mindful to take chronic pain into consideration for any plans later in life, especially if you've not been the most disciplined with your health. Also get up and stretch more. Please.
- mensetmanusman 3y agoStand more than you sit every day!
- Aaronstotle 3y agoGood advice, one of my dear family friends father passed away during Christmas in 2021. I think the saddest thing was that they had been planning a trip to Spain and were putting it off to do other things instead, he was nearing retirement as well. Since that day I've been more willing to do things instead of putting them off.
- wizofaus 3y agoWhile I don't disagree there are certain activities (skydiving etc.) I'm happy to wait until retirement to try, given the consequences of something going wrong - if I miss out on my last decade or so of growing old peacefully, so be it. But I'm not quite so cavalier about it when I'm hoping I still have another 30 years of good health ahead of me.