I am a "guess" person myself. I once was horribly burned by an "ask" person I dated who politely, but expectantly asked for the moon on a regular basis. There

I am a "guess" person myself. I once was horribly burned by an "ask" person I dated who politely, but expectantly asked for the moon on a regular basis. There was a significant cultural bias in play for sure. I felt somewhat steamrolled at the time. It did not work out. I am sure it was about more than different cultures, at the end of the day.