If there is one thing I learned, it is that when it comes to life partners and family where the stakes are conmingled, for the really important stuff, it is bet

If there is one thing I learned, it is that when it comes to life partners and family where the stakes are conmingled, for the really important stuff, it is better to be open and direct. So I think one of the hidden dimensions here are — are you guessing because you are trying to consider the other person, or are you guessing because there is vulnerability to exposing what you really feel?