This also reminds me of the distinction drawn between "honor" and "dignity" cultures, as eg in [1]; I'd be interested to see how the "ask" vs. "guess" distincti

This also reminds me of the distinction drawn between "honor" and "dignity" cultures, as eg in [1]; I'd be interested to see how the "ask" vs. "guess" distinction maps, especially as antebellum Southern and prewar Japanese cultures both fall as strongly on the "honor" side as their modern successors fall on the "guess" side. [1] https://alexandria.ucsb.edu/lib/ark:/48907/f37d2s7h#:~:text=Honor%20cultures%20place%20importance%20on,the%20social%20regard%20of%20others https://alexandria.ucsb.edu/lib/ark:/48907/f37d2s7h#:~:text=....