> This person, imo, deeply does not understand what is happening in these situations. "... But all of the older relatives insisted we did not, suggesting that

> This person, imo, deeply does not understand what is happening in these situations. "... But all of the older relatives insisted we did not, suggesting that instead we see the sights in San Diego, that we take the kids to Sea World ..." I think you're right. Her relatives were hoping she would guess that they didn't want her to bring the kids.