"Disputes arising from different communication attitudes in relationships" reminds me of Deborah Tannen's "You Just Don't Understand", which was recommended to

"Disputes arising from different communication attitudes in relationships" reminds me of Deborah Tannen's "You Just Don't Understand", which was recommended to me. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/You_Just_Don%27t_Understand https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/You_Just_Don%27t_Understand Tannen's main suggestion is at least if you're aware that someone communicates differently than you do, you might either make accommodation, or better understand things that might frustrate you.