Questioning of motives aside, this same framing comes up in plenty of places: "nobody ever talks about miscarriages/postpartum healing/whatever" is one I've hea

Questioning of motives aside, this same framing comes up in plenty of places: "nobody ever talks about miscarriages/postpartum healing/whatever" is one I've heard frequently. The discussions you're looking for are more personal, and don't belong on the internet among strangers. You open up to people and they open up to you. Some things don't scale.