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There is little less welcome than unsolicited "advice", especially coming from the person and place that are supposed to be the refuge from all the shit going o

• fragmede 3y ago
  "Hey, are you open to feedback?" works wonders. Also be prepared for "no". This does require someone who's able to say no though, which isn't a given.
• awb 3y ago
  A long-term partner probably knows you better than anyone. No one likes getting called out on their stuff, if you want to grow as a person or as a couple you’re going to move past that initial discomfort, reflect on it and then decide if it’s valid enough feedback to try to integrate it.