I'm absolutely positive that I've been described as "difficult" many times throughout my 30-year career as a computer programmer. I've picked up on a lot of fr

I'm absolutely positive that I've been described as "difficult" many times throughout my 30-year career as a computer programmer. I've picked up on a lot of frustration from other people around me - but that's almost always when I tell them I don't know the answer to the question that they just asked me for an answer to. I can figure it out, I'm qualified to figure it out, but I don't know the answer _right this ver instant_. So I'm "difficult".