> ...do the wrong things or fail a little bit and gently guide solutions That's getting someone to change their mind 101. Not an engineer exclusive insight. I

> ...do the wrong things or fail a little bit and gently guide solutions That's getting someone to change their mind 101. Not an engineer exclusive insight. I think a lot of "oh engineers are so rational that's why people think we're so rude" is just post hoc rationalization for poor social skills.