Regardless of where the burden of proof lies, telling someone who nearly lost a parent this year that they are a horrible human being for expressing their grati

Regardless of where the burden of proof lies, telling someone who nearly lost a parent this year that they are a horrible human being for expressing their gratitude in a way you disapprove of isn't going to convince anyone of anything. And I don't think that you will make the world any better by being mean to other people.