Usually when there is cognitive dissonance involved with the command. Parents might tell you being gay or smoking weed sends you to hell, but then when you fina

Usually when there is cognitive dissonance involved with the command. Parents might tell you being gay or smoking weed sends you to hell, but then when you finally see examples of people that meet these definitions your parents espoused but aren't presumably suffering the harmful effects they claim, you start to question their judgement and the entire belief system they saddled upon you. Teenagers don't usually act out just to act out. They don't argue to you the sky is red when you say its blue, they will argue breathless over it though if you claim its red when they can go outside and see that it is blue.