I think you're making the mistake of thinking that you know what people want better than they do. The attitude of "keeping up with the Joneses" is almost an ur

I think you're making the mistake of thinking that you know what people want better than they do. The attitude of "keeping up with the Joneses" is almost an urban legend. People are not moving to the suburbs and having kids and dogs because they aren't strong enough to stand up to societal pressures. They move to the suburbs and have kids and dogs because that's what they've done throughout human evolution. The person who thinks they can leave and live independently is the oddball.