If you had the same type of parent you can read between the lines (possibly wrongly but its better to be over sensitized than miss it) to see the narcissism or

If you had the same type of parent you can read between the lines (possibly wrongly but its better to be over sensitized than miss it) to see the narcissism or abuse. A stable parent would say “I trust my child who I raised and will hear the whole story”, while the abuse parent is having some kind of fear or anger response triggered that is all about them and their emotions and they kind of stop paying attention to whatever else you say.