I’m saying it helps me, you’re saying it cannot help me. I’m wondering who I should believe. If anything there seems to be this visceral reaction by (mostly) m

I’m saying it helps me, you’re saying it cannot help me. I’m wondering who I should believe. If anything there seems to be this visceral reaction by (mostly) men to the idea that they could use any help from outside to become better. Every guy seems to think they’re Ron Swanson with irony being the show was written by the so-called Californians and he gets help from friends anyway. You could argue “that’s friends not a therapist” well maybe I’ve found better advice coming from a professional than an amateur. I’m tired of taking advice and giving advice within my friend group when we ourselves can’t deal with the same advice ourselves.