It took me a long time--three decades; more--to get over my parents' expectations for me. You are not them. You are not them. They are not you. They have no r

It took me a long time--three decades; more--to get over my parents' expectations for me. You are not them. You are not them. They are not you. They have no right to try to live their fantasies through you. No right at all. Block them. They have failed. If you can, get far away. You need a lot of space to heal, and then learn who you are. You do not have to have a job at a name brand corporation. That's something you don't need.