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> We had a perfectly happy, frugal, life at around $36k. There's a tendency for people to think that anyone not living in a house with a white picket fence in
by onlyrealcuzzo 3y ago
> We had a perfectly happy, frugal, life at around $36k.
There's a tendency for people to think that anyone not living in a house with a white picket fence in Queen Anne must be insufferable.
It seems like there's a large group of people that is simply miserable if they don't have as much as others - regardless of if that thing is going to actually bring them any joy or not.
It seems like half my friends are killing themselves to buy a boat - and they don't even go out boating more than a couple times a year. I'll never get it.
- dahwolf 3y agoIt's an interest effect indeed: social poverty. As a kid in the 80s we owned close to nothing. But nobody did and we just made the best of it. I never felt poor because this simply was the living standard of the time and our objective needs were met. It seems since then we simply invented a whole lot of extra "needs", which really are "wants".
- red-iron-pine 3y agoBut if you're not in SLU, is it really living?