I've been WFH for 20 years. My family's life has been built around it including choice of schools, my wife's job, activities, etc. We own one car. If I were to

I've been WFH for 20 years. My family's life has been built around it including choice of schools, my wife's job, activities, etc. We own one car. If I were to take a job downtown, my wife would have to get a different job, we'd have to pay for some level of child care, arrange transportation for school, drop various activities, buy a second car so I could drive to the train station (which comes with maintenance, insurance, registration, etc). The amount of money that would make any of this worth it is not small. You'd have to cover the additional expenses and then write a big check on top to compensate for disrupting our way of life.