> I don’t think you should be telling others to “get a grip,” because their experience differs from your own, but here we are. You tried to attached the Americ

> I don’t think you should be telling others to “get a grip,” because their experience differs from your own, but here we are. You tried to attached the American cultural norm of manners and courtesy to their history of black slavery. "Get a grip" is a pretty mild response to something so absurd, hyperbolic, and flat out insulting.