That might work for some relationships, but not all. My wife made the first move, and technically I think she actually proposed first - but these gender roles a

That might work for some relationships, but not all. My wife made the first move, and technically I think she actually proposed first - but these gender roles are by no means hard coded and are primarily enforced through social structures. Different strokes for different folks. Don't be so strict with your social structures and you'll probably be happier.