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Indulging someone's hypersensitivities is not helping them, it's harming them.
by jlawson 3y ago
Indulging someone's hypersensitivities is not helping them, it's harming them.
- NateEag 3y agoEhhh... that's pretty black-and-white. It's definitely possible to hurt someone by indulging their hypersensitivity, but it's also possible to hurt someone by completely ignoring them when they tell you "what you said hurt me." Like engineering, communication in hard situations isn't about following rules legalistically - it's about understanding the nuances of the situation and your tools well and making the best judgments you can admit the different tradeoffs you're balancing in a given moment.