You're absolutely right, I for one do care, a lot. Then, I feel _most_ don't, and since _most_ is driving this train we're in, I feel we have to deliver the mes

You're absolutely right, I for one do care, a lot. Then, I feel _most_ don't, and since _most_ is driving this train we're in, I feel we have to deliver the message in all the possible ways it can be, including a toned down dismissive one. I know from experience that the _in your face_ affirmative way gets rammed-in the pickup truck way every single freakin time. So maybe one should try other ways. Our mileage may vary, of course.