Most people are not willing to pander to a vegan like the group you describe though. Vegan communities are full of stories about how hard it is to try and find

Most people are not willing to pander to a vegan like the group you describe though. Vegan communities are full of stories about how hard it is to try and find something on a menu they can eat when going out with friends. And even though the people in the group you mention eat vegan food when out with a vegan, it doesn't make them vegan.