As someone who did work for companies that were too far and it didn’t want to move and so I paid for my own hotel room. After 1 I was so sad, depressed of going

As someone who did work for companies that were too far and it didn’t want to move and so I paid for my own hotel room. After 1 I was so sad, depressed of going alone to my hotel that I quit. There is just no money in the world that will replace personal connections (for me my wife and kids). So either housing goes down or work somewhere else - full stop.