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They're not referring to socializing with you, per se. I see this mistake made all the time in these discussions. Many just prefer to be around other people, my
by DiggyJohnson 3y ago
They're not referring to socializing with you, per se. I see this mistake made all the time in these discussions. Many just prefer to be around other people, myself included. They're not necessarily the caricature of the "overly social office mate that needs to find friends outside of work" that you are implying.
I really think you're overassuming your knowledge of the person you're responding to.
- paulcole 3y agoIt’s not a mistake. People who are pro-WFH are so dogmatic about it (and so protective of their “right” to WFH) that they intentionally reduce anyone who prefers working in an office to somebody with no social life.
- spookthesunset 3y agoMany of them bought homes way out in the boondocks assuming this covid remote crap would never end…
- paulcole 3y agoYeah, and? That gives them the right to put down anyone who likes working in an office by calling them an anti-social loser? Every decision has consequences. Anybody who thought “covid remote crap would never end” is either way more optimistic or way more pessimistic than I am.
- spookthesunset 3y agoTotally agree. I really hate how so many people paint those who want 2019 normal office interaction back are somehow deeply flawed and just need to straighten up and fly right somehow.
- DiggyJohnson 3y agoI actually agree 100% with this perspective. Well said.
- n42 3y agoI guess it’s unsurprising that people without the social capacity to handle in office work would not have the social capacity to empathize with someone who prefers it. Or more fairly, probably the inverse; plenty of WFHers wouldn’t be so derisive, we just don’t hear from them
- biztos 3y agoThat’s quite the generalization, and isn’t at all the typical pro-WFH attitude I see on HN. I’m pro-WFH and have WFH-d since 2009 but I’d love to go to the office more, if the office were nice and in the right place.