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This basic wisdom sounds like a child's view of human relationships and emotions. Like someone approximating what things should be like rather than what they a
by timacles 3y ago
This basic wisdom sounds like a child's view of human relationships and emotions. Like someone approximating what things should be like rather than what they actually are.
It honestly just reads like misogyny, like women who have many partners are emotionally incapable of love. Let me tell you a secret, any semi-attractive & social woman will have easily had 20 partners by age 25-30.
Theres no such thing as the "same exact" pair bond 20 times. Each one is different. And if something is of a certain strength, then how can it be weaker because it happened before? The only way what you're saying is true is if the person was jaded by the previous relationships and can no longer form deep connections.
Emotions are infinite.
- mustafa_pasi 3y agoWhy would I listen to you on this topic when your demographic has a worse track record on this matter? Within my community people lead happy lifelong marriages. Why should I listen to your "wisdom" instead of theirs? You can call me misogynistic, I don't care, but then so are all the women in my community. If we take a worldwide survey I would bet my views are more common than yours. People who sleep around a lot are less capable of long term love. I believe that and it is backed by research on the matter as well. If you care you can read about sociosexuality. That there is a relationship between attractivness and promiscuity amongst women is something I disagree with. But it would not make a difference either way. Most breakups from a serious relationship do end up with the people being jaded. Emotions are definitely notinfinite. Quite the opposite. BTW to not mislead anyone I am an atheist and grew up as a mainstream Catholic from Germany.
- uwagar 3y ago>Let me tell you a secret, any semi-attractive & social woman will have easily had 20 partners by age 25-30. depressing.