I tried to give some advice, for what it is worth coming from me, in some other posts. And yes, I insist, not being an ass is a great basis. Which requires kno

I tried to give some advice, for what it is worth coming from me, in some other posts. And yes, I insist, not being an ass is a great basis. Which requires knowing what makes someone an ass, true. If people fail at knowing that, well, issues at dating are more of a sympthom and not the root cause. Also, yes, at the end there is only so much others can do for you and help you with. Being able to be self-reliant, and being able to ask for, and accept, help are actually rather attractive traits. As is taking responsibility, first for yourself and then for others.