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> if she already experienced the same exact bond and maybe a stronger bond with 20 other men in the past Says who? I don't know what's so hard to understand ab
by phailhaus 3y ago
> if she already experienced the same exact bond and maybe a stronger bond with 20 other men in the past
Says who? I don't know what's so hard to understand about this. How many friends have you had over the years? Should your current friends be wary of the fact that your "friend count" is so high? Seems like your bond with them is pretty weak if you had the same exact bond with hundreds of people in the past, and they should steer clear of you.
The idea that you should commit to the first friends you make is just as absurd for partners.
- kibwen 3y agoHear hear. If someone happens to find a spouse on their first try, then good for them. Otherwise, keep looking. Clinging to your first relationship merely because they're your first is an indicator of personal insecurity and/or desperation, and you'll be a better partner once you learn to work past that.
- mensetmanusman 3y agoThere is different evolutionary biology behind sec than there is friendship. Analogy breaks quickly.
- phailhaus 3y agoUh, marriage is not just about sex. Most of marriage is not about sex, actually.