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Just playing Devil's Advocate: you can't miss out on what you don't know exists. Meaning: the sex and relationship you have with your first partner is necessar
by DANmode 3y ago
Just playing Devil's Advocate: you can't miss out on what you don't know exists.
Meaning: the sex and relationship you have with your first partner is necessarily the best and relationship you've ever had.
- meheleventyone 3y ago> Just playing Devil's Advocate: you can't miss out on what you don't know exists. You don’t need to experience something to know it exists. And even if this were true that ends up being a shitty justification for abusive relationships.
- DANmode 3y ago> You don’t need to experience something to know it exists. Some do. Knowing it exists doesn't make it "real", for some, for lack of better phrasing.
- hutzlibu 3y agoBut by that logic it is also the worst. And with the rise of video and amateur porn, you can in fact have a easy look what other people are doing and if you are maybe missing something.
- DANmode 3y agoPeople don't use logic, though, they use emotion: look how long folks stay in less-than-ideal jobs, even if there's little keeping them there besides routine.
- johnnyanmac 3y ago>look how long folks stay in less-than-ideal jobs, even if there's little keeping them there besides routine. Logically, if it was as easy to get promoted or move to a new job as shaking a hand and talking over the bar, people would move around more often. But because current job ads above minimum wage ones are looking for degrees and multiple calls spread over a few weeks and certain skills/portfolio/hisory, it's a big barrier even before talking about studying the interview specific skills