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I didn't say I had trouble finding a meaningful relationship. I said I'm having trouble finding meaning in dating 38 year old women.

• idiotsecant 3y ago
  It's startling how much self awareness it's possible to have.
  • tomcam 3y ago
    You really, really need to review this HN guideline from https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html: Be kind. Don't be snarky.
    • kaba0 3y ago
      That should extend also to people not present in the discussion, which parent poster absolutely fails to fulfill.
      • tomcam 3y ago
        Ow! Not arguing with you, but would like a few links to where I messed up.
• Cthulhu_ 3y ago
  And that's... fine? As in, if you're done with it, you can choose not to play. Stay single if it makes you happier. Just don't shift blame to others, they have their own life and choices that are completely out of your hands and concern.
  • pzo 3y ago
    he didn't say he is single or planning to stay single forever. He might as well dating someone younger. For woman its generally: - harder to date someone younger - it's harder to date when you are 35+ (smaller pool of single people) but even harder for woman (because guys take bigger importance into how someone look and because of woman biological clock) - when someone is divorced with kid (even when young) is hard to date for anyone but for woman even more difficult