To me I enjoy every moments with my children. Not only enjoyment, I couldn't have imagined how much I'm learning from them and I'm experiencing life so much ful

To me I enjoy every moments with my children. Not only enjoyment, I couldn't have imagined how much I'm learning from them and I'm experiencing life so much fuller now. For one example, empathy, all the books about how to be empathetic can't make me a bit more empathetic. My children do. Another example being learning to listen, it is humbling to have your children asking you to listen them more. Ok, one last example is gaining inner peace of people not "understand" you. It happens in work place a lot that sometimes seemingly good idea goes unheard. There are lots of things I can share with my young. It is okay if they don't understand now. And I'm learning from them too so what I think I know might not matter 10 years down the road. Live the moment The rational side of me tell me it is all my selfish gene in action. And I'm loving it.