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I've lived 2 years as a hikki and 15 years as a neet (worked very little, mostly freelancing and various expedients). I always wondered how it happened, and in
by toldyouso2022 3y ago
I've lived 2 years as a hikki and 15 years as a neet (worked very little, mostly freelancing and various expedients).
I always wondered how it happened, and in the end I think that while some thing were out of society's control, the italian society is based too much on people being "perfect".
It's not a society where one can make mistakes or be different, these things are not allowed both by the State and a good number of people.
And I'm not talking of mistakes like shooting heroin, but even dropping out of college, getting some bureaucracy wrong, etc
It wouldn't surprise me if japan was similar.
- funnym0nk3y 3y agoHonest question: Is the italian society really that perfectionistic or was your perception back then not spot on?
- toldyouso2022 3y agoIt's perfectionistic on paper, but perfection is impossible so things end up messy most of the time. This has been a recent realization, before that I truly believed what were required of a person by society, which for sure did contribute to my failings.