Lots of men are hooking up with some rotation of four women semi-regularly, yes. A lot of those women are doing the same. Not necessarily all at once, but that

Lots of men are hooking up with some rotation of four women semi-regularly, yes. A lot of those women are doing the same. Not necessarily all at once, but that too. There are plenty of people who date casually like this without labeling it some form of non-monogamy, and without actively trying to get into a committed relationship. When you are very attractive on dating apps - I would say more like the top 5% than the top 20% of men - you have all the choices in the world, your experience is dramatically different than that of other men.