I wonder if / think that that way of thinking, applies to many areas in life? At least that's how most people go about dating, is it not (no one says "oh you're

I wonder if / think that that way of thinking, applies to many areas in life? At least that's how most people go about dating, is it not (no one says "oh you're just pretending to be such a successful man / good looking woman but you're just making things up)