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Nah, both my English-speaking and Italian-speaking family use "uncle" and "aunt" with a similar amount of ambiguity. It's a term of respect for elder family mem
by cosmojg 3y ago
Nah, both my English-speaking and Italian-speaking family use "uncle" and "aunt" with a similar amount of ambiguity. It's a term of respect for elder family members, extended or otherwise.
- kaashif 3y agoOn the other hand, I've never heard of uncle meaning any family member other than the brother of a parent. At the very least, we can agree that using "uncle" like this is incredibly easily misinterpreted.
- joelfried 3y agoI'm a bit surprised you've never heard of the spouse of a parental sibling called an uncle as well. To make that more explicit: my father's sister is my aunt, and her husband is my uncle.
- flufferstutter 3y agoThat is definitely common in my experience. Now calling the brother of my parent’s brother’s wife “uncle” might be a bit of stretch.
- kaashif 3y agoOh, I meant brother in law too, actually. But my point is, anything beyond that isn't something I've heard.
- tristor 3y agoMeanwhile, I refer to one of my father’s second cousins as my uncle. It completely depends on context, even in more strict cultures around this. If someone is close enough to the family they can be an aunt or uncle even if their relation is more distant.
- gambiting 3y agoIn my family every single male relative is an uncle(and every female is an aunt).
- influxmoment 3y agoUncle has a specific meaning in English. In nearly ever other culture/language family titles are more flexible
- hn_throwaway_99 3y agoThat's a bad analogy that's missing context. I have a very close friend of my dad's that I called "Uncle Bob" when growing up. That's very different than reading a news article that says "Famous Person X is Famous Person Y's uncle" - in that context I would expect a very specific set of possible relationships.