Side note, we should start using the term "consent negotiation" instead of "escalation" when teaching people about relationships. "Escalation" seems like one pe

Side note, we should start using the term "consent negotiation" instead of "escalation" when teaching people about relationships. "Escalation" seems like one person aiming for a goal and the agency of the other person can be easily ignored. Whereas "consent negotiation" implies that there are multiple autonomous agents each with their own desires and boundaries that must be respected to arrive at a mutually agreeable outcome.