I think HTML, CSS, and Javascript is something you can do together. She will only be 11 once. And then not for long. It happens fast and then is gone forever

I think HTML, CSS, and Javascript is something you can do together. She will only be 11 once. And then not for long. It happens fast and then is gone forever. Her interest in doing what you do is an expression of her entering the adult world. She is framing up her adult relationship with you. And you are framing up your adult relationship with her (regardless of how you fell about that). You can of course prioritize "Part of me, however, feels" Or perhaps prioritize time with her without thinking about productivity, efficiency, or anything else besides the moment. Good luck.