At the end of the day, it boils down to this. Do you rather have your kid to have big N% chance of being abused, or small n%. At a micro level, you might get m

At the end of the day, it boils down to this. Do you rather have your kid to have big N% chance of being abused, or small n%. At a micro level, you might get more control, but at the macro level, the results in aggregate are what matter.