This is overly dualistic. (that's a word Buddhism likes to use to mean "wrong") Another way to think of it is to consider them and you as a single thing (a man

This is overly dualistic. (that's a word Buddhism likes to use to mean "wrong") Another way to think of it is to consider them and you as a single thing (a mandala) and improve that. And of course Buddhists are not necessarily going to see being victimized as bad anyway. What's that to a monk?