There has been more than zero times in my life when I discovered I was in posession of something I was unaware of. Not often drugs specifically, but I can't sa

There has been more than zero times in my life when I discovered I was in posession of something I was unaware of. Not often drugs specifically, but I can't say for sure never that either. In my 20's I had friends that spanned a full spectrum, and not all activities were organized and orderly. You go on a camping trip, or even just a night in someone's back yard, you come back with mystery items in your blanket/towel/bag/cooler/coat. I don't smoke and yet I somehow have been in posession of many lighters at different times. If someone doesn't understand how that happens, I can only feel sorry that they have lived so little that they never lent a girl their coat at a party or provided the blanket that everyone else sat on etc. But then they end up in a position to decide what constitutes fair and reasonable expectations for everyone else.