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"Every decision should be optimised so that personal growth is part of the deal, and self-sacrifice is not." My perspective is different: Sacrifice yourself f
by lhnz 15y ago
"Every decision should be optimised so that personal growth is part of the deal, and self-sacrifice is not."
My perspective is different:
Sacrifice yourself for life. Go all in! Not for yourself, your masters, or your peers, but for life itself. This isn't about success. This is about living to your fullest potential and consistently reaching a state of flow in which you are able to fully appreciate all facets of your journey, not just its end.
edit; I'm being down-voted but I did not write a content-less post. I simply disagree with the author. He is trying to optimise for success and by implication happiness, but has not considered hedonistic adaption [0] and flow states [1]. I believe his optimisations will not be fruitful long-term.
[0] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hedonic_treadmill http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hedonic_treadmill
[1] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flow_(psychology) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flow_(psychology)
- swombat 15y ago"Constantly reaching a state of flow in which you are able to fully appreciate all facets of your journey, not just its end" sounds like exactly the growth mindset I'm promoting. Self-sacrifice, on the contrary, implies ignoring the crappiness of the journey because you have some higher objective in mind.