You have to get a sense of scale. Your neighbor slapping around his kid is obviously less important than the death of a child, and the death of a child is obvio

You have to get a sense of scale. Your neighbor slapping around his kid is obviously less important than the death of a child, and the death of a child is obviously less important than the deaths of 1000 children. We killed a million children in Iraq before the post 9/11 invasion.