Ignore those parents, they are just unable to handle on their own their own insecurities, mental issues, stress and other baggage and they bring it also to rais

Ignore those parents, they are just unable to handle on their own their own insecurities, mental issues, stress and other baggage and they bring it also to raising of their closest ones, with corresponding long term consequences. There are dedicated terms for those, ie helicopter parents, control freaks etc. The simple fact is, internet/mobile/information revolution came too fast, caught whole world by a massive surprise, and people had to cope with completely new benefits and drawbacks of this new aspect of their lives on their own. As with everything else, some cope better/smarter than others, and as usually nothing is black & white. You are doing fine (judging solely from your description), don't worry what others say - its their problem.