right, I might consider that a large number of the services my employer has paid for are crap, but when I talk to representatives of those services I can't say

right, I might consider that a large number of the services my employer has paid for are crap, but when I talk to representatives of those services I can't say why in hell did you decide to do this idiotic crap because their HR would complain to my employer's HR and thus I am forced to be polite. Definitely a win for professional etiquette. I believe, based on other comments I have seen on HN, that my view is a pretty widespread one.