Your definition of "easy" is certainly unconventional. > Once I decided I really want to get something, the rest is relatively easy I hate this phrase, but I

Your definition of "easy" is certainly unconventional. > Once I decided I really want to get something, the rest is relatively easy I hate this phrase, but I think it fits here - check your privilege. It's quite possible that you ignore your starting position and don't consider it doesn't have to apply to everybody else - especially when you're forming very general statements.