There are people who lost their loved ones and those who haven't yet. This is something one has to live through to understand and it is life-altering. In other

There are people who lost their loved ones and those who haven't yet. This is something one has to live through to understand and it is life-altering. In other words, former don't need the "be good to each other" advice and latter can't really appreciate it. It's a good piece though, Paul.