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Ha - I know where you're coming from, but, like every opinionated SOB on this site, can't help but throw in my own opinion*: 1) The parent comment seems comple
by tiffanyg 3y ago
Ha - I know where you're coming from, but, like every opinionated SOB on this site, can't help but throw in my own opinion*:
1) The parent comment seems completely neutral and non-judgmental. Seems quite just "I had this experience", essentially a set of facts (compared to frequent enough comments that possibly really ought to generate a response / "note of approbation").
2) Stereotypes are the epitome of judgmental thinking, language, attitudes, etc. That may sound judgmental itself, and I apologize for that - that's due, in part, to connotation "issues" with words we use (although, I can't, obviously, claim that even removing those removes all of that issue - I am literally labeling and characterizing strictly in denotation). To be fair, people, in general, can be very smug.
In my experience, there has been an "enrichment" of that in "IT", but, for example, try talking to some of the especially high-ranking surgeons, say ... or, certain professors. In particular, I've personally come across a somewhat bimodal distribution, I think. Some people who reach "very high levels of expertise" are very humble ("right-sized" - not subservient or etc.) and super nice (surprisingly willing to help and talk to even "the layman" / "novice"). Then, there are the outright "arrogant bastards".
So, to add some kind of summation - calling out "IT people" specifically, and especially the parent comment ... well, what's the point? Again - not meant to be rhetorical or aggressive ... but, I think many would agree that people in general should cut that $h1t out.
This opinion brought to you by my "Big Giant Head... remember, when you're thinking of giant heads, think [my] Big Giant Head..."**
* Which, we all know is likely to be comparable to ... something else everyone's got. Though, I'm telling myself, of course, that I've got something useful to say. "Caveat lector". :)
** With apologies to the writers and other people involved in making "3rd Rock from the Sun"
- rat9988 3y agoYou are way too apologetic with the original post. It was not just a set of facts. You could feel the superior attitude. It's kind of obvious in the last sentence. The person you answer did well to call it out.
- richie_adler 3y agoI read the post in Mastodon with a tone of amused incredulity at the unusual situation. Yes, some unusual habits of the professor may have contributed, but I don't read any negative judgement there. Somebody got burned too many times with IT people, I think.
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