Nowadays my questions are much more likely to get closed and it is impossible to get them reopened. This takes a pretty big emotional toll, as I usually invest

Nowadays my questions are much more likely to get closed and it is impossible to get them reopened. This takes a pretty big emotional toll, as I usually invest quite a bit of time to describe my problems. People vote to close and then move on. I don't mind editing my questions to satisfy the moderator's demands, but not if it has zero effect and just wastes my time. I think people should be required to confirm their close/down-votes after a question or answer was edited, or else the votes should be automatically reverted. This mechanism should probably only apply within a limited time period after the question/answer was posted (or until a certain period of inactivity has passed). It saddens me deeply, but currently I prefer not to ask questions, because the experience is so jarring.